Chapter 1: The Challenge of Loneliness Among Young People

Recently, I stumbled upon an article that prompted me to ask, “Is this a positive or negative trend?” Every time I step out into public spaces, I notice young individuals engrossed in their devices. Whether in restaurants, coffee shops, or even movie theaters, their faces are lit up by smartphone screens, fingers scrolling through an endless stream of videos and distractions.

Additionally, there are countless video games vying for their attention. Today's youth have an abundance of online diversions that keep them confined to their rooms like modern-day hermits. Adults, too, find themselves caught in the web of YouTube binges and social media spirals. Given that young people are the leaders of tomorrow, this raises a valid concern.

Amidst these musings, I came across an article highlighting young girls from across the globe who travel to Finland to participate in a unique competition. They come equipped with costumes, judges, specialized gear, and even face obstacle courses. Footage from these events showcases the high level of fitness and athleticism required.

What is this sport that encourages young girls to step away from their screens and engage in international competition and camaraderie? It’s hobby horsing.

Section 1.1: The Hobby Horse Phenomenon

Hobby horsing involves participants using stick horses, which are essentially broomsticks adorned with stuffed horse heads. This activity has evolved into a significant cultural movement. According to hobby-horse.com:

"Contrary to popular belief, hobby horsing is not merely a child’s plaything; it represents a blend of sport, creative play, and hobbyism that has gained immense popularity in recent years. Originating in Finland in 2002, it has since spread across Europe and beyond. We cherish the time spent outdoors with friends, promoting creativity, gymnastics, commitment, responsibility, and a love for animals."

It’s intriguing how this age-old pastime, which dates back to the 16th century, has captivated young people's interest in a time dominated by TikTok and social media. More importantly, it fosters connection and community.

Chapter 2: Building Healthy Communities

Most parents aspire for their children to receive a good education, form meaningful friendships, and establish fulfilling careers. However, along their journey, young people also need constructive outlets, hobbies, and interests that nurture their hearts and minds. Some discover these in the arts, music, or structured sports.

After learning about the hobby horse trend, I pondered whether it was beneficial. The boundary between competitive sports and imaginative play seems blurred.

“What path should young people pursue today? Many, undoubtedly. However, the boldest approach is to create stable communities that can remedy the insidious disease of loneliness,” mused Kurt Vonnegut in Palm Sunday: An Autobiographical Collage.

I took the time to explore videos of hobby horse competitions. While witnessing the emotional reactions during awards ceremonies seemed excessive at first, I reconsidered the athleticism and community spirit these events foster.

I concluded that hobby horsing is indeed a positive development. It motivates young individuals to engage in physical activity, enjoy the outdoors, and step away from their screens. Furthermore, it offers an affordable alternative for those unable to ride real horses or distant from equestrian facilities, allowing them to exercise and appreciate horses in a playful context.

Most importantly, hobby horsing has cultivated a community where young people can communicate, socialize, compete, and have fun. In a world where loneliness has reached alarming levels, perhaps galloping on hobby horses is not so absurd after all.

The first video, titled "Today's Teenagers and Young Adults are Ready to Change the Future," discusses the potential of today's youth to make a significant impact on the world. It underscores the importance of community and collective action in addressing issues of loneliness and isolation.

The second video, "What's the Problem With Kids These Days? Maybe it's Us," explores the dynamics between generations and the role of adults in shaping the experiences of young people, highlighting the need for empathy and understanding.

A Plea for Human Connection

The late Nobel Prize-winning author Saul Bellow's 1944 novel, Dangling Man, portrays a protagonist named Joseph who, during the Great Depression and World War II, grapples with his isolation and quest for identity. As he documents his thoughts in a diary, he struggles with the tension between personal freedom and societal expectations.

Ultimately, Joseph’s journey illustrates the necessity of finding identity within a community. An analysis from enotes.com states, "To be most fully human is to forswear the chimera of a transcendent self."

Existentialist philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre famously remarked, “Hell is — other people!” in his play No Exit, emphasizing our need for validation through others, which can sometimes feel like a burden. Yet, relationships can also lead to personal growth through support, feedback, and companionship.

What should young people pursue in their lives today? They should seek education, prioritize their physical and emotional well-being, and explore rewarding careers and hobbies. Above all, they should find their community.

A community of like-minded individuals, sharing passions and interests, is as refreshing as discovering an oasis in a parched desert. Such a community can combat loneliness, foster friendship, and facilitate personal growth.

This is the antidote to the affliction of solitude. Seek out those who share your passions, even if it means joining a group of hobby horse enthusiasts. Life is too fleeting to remain isolated and disconnected. Take inspiration from those hobby horse competitors and actively seek out individuals who resonate with your interests.

Go find your community.

I’m John P. Weiss. I write insightful books, stories, and essays on life's intricacies. Join over 11K creative individuals enjoying my free Saturday Letters, a perfect companion to coffee and weekend contemplation.