How to Invest in Your Future Self: Five Key Challenges
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Chapter 1: The Reality of Life's Challenges
Life can be incredibly tough. Many thinkers—philosophers, psychologists, and everyday individuals—have highlighted this truth. Scott Peck, the Stoics, Mark Manson, Ryan Holiday, and even your neighbor likely share this sentiment. It's a universal experience, and deep down, you probably agree. No one can avoid life's myriad challenges: sickness, work frustrations, reckless drivers, technology failures, and the stress of making significant purchases. With all these obstacles, it’s easy to question the purpose of moving forward.
So, what’s the value of life when it seems so arduous? The answer is that life encompasses so much more than just hardship. It includes love, beauty, despair, joy, and a wealth of experiences. Life is everything—from the harshest winters to the sunniest summers, from the warmth of a mother's touch to the pain of abuse. It exists beyond our judgment; it simply is. The challenges we face are not exceptions but rather inherent aspects of existence. We have two choices: either we ignore these challenges until they overwhelm us or we accept them and adjust our mindset to enhance our lives and those of others around us.
If you resonate with the first option, this article isn't for you. If you choose the second, let’s delve deeper.
Accepting our circumstances and striving for self-improvement is commendable. However, as you look ahead, the path often splits into numerous directions filled with possibilities. Stay calm. The important thing is not where to begin but simply to begin, and this article aims to guide you on that journey.
Many of our struggles stem from sacrificing our future selves to satisfy our present desires. We’ve all been tempted by instant gratification, whether it’s opting for a candy bar over healthier choices or postponing necessary tasks. Take, for instance, the importance of regular car maintenance. We change our car's oil not just for immediate benefits but to prevent future breakdowns. Ignoring our responsibilities can lead to regrettable consequences down the line.
One approach to navigating life’s hurdles is to stop undermining our future selves in the present. If we don’t, we’ll only compound our difficulties. Life brings its own set of challenges—death, illness, betrayal—and we don’t need to add to them with our own poor choices.
To help prepare for some of these challenges, I have compiled a brief list of common issues and how you can equip your present self to face them. This list is not exhaustive; many topics could warrant entire articles of their own, and I plan to expand on these in future writings.
Section 1.1: Addressing Obesity
It's no surprise that the first few challenges are ones you’ve likely encountered repeatedly. We need to maintain a healthy diet—this is universally acknowledged. Research supports the necessity of watching our weight and avoiding harmful substances. But how do we achieve this amidst our busy lives?
Let’s break it down into three practical strategies:
Minimize Visual Temptation
You’ve likely heard the advice, "Don’t shop on an empty stomach." This holds true; shopping while hungry often leads to unhealthy purchases. If you find yourself with tempting snacks at home, consider disposing of them. If you wish to keep some treats, store them out of sight to reduce temptation. The less visible the junk food, the less likely you’ll indulge.
Substitute with Healthy Options
Keep nutritious foods easily accessible. Canned vegetables and beans can serve as quick sides to your meals. Stock your kitchen with fruits, eggs, yogurt, and other unprocessed foods. These staples can help transition you toward healthier eating habits.
Meal Prepping
Alleviate daily meal decisions by preparing meals in advance. This strategy can save you time and mental energy during a busy workweek.
Lastly, remember that change doesn’t happen overnight. Start with small, manageable adjustments.
The first video titled "Pay Your Future Self: A Simple Way to Invest in You" discusses how small daily investments can yield significant benefits for your future self.
Section 1.2: Managing Mental Stressors
Mental health is a crucial topic today for good reason. Many of us experience intrusive thoughts that undermine our self-worth. Accepting these thoughts is the first step, but we must also take actionable steps to cultivate mental resilience.
Three effective practices to consider are meditation, journaling, and gratitude. Each practice has its unique benefits, and you can experiment to see which resonates with you. Whether it's quiet reflection or writing down your thoughts, the goal is to find what helps you manage stress and prepare your future self for life's inevitable challenges.
The second video, "HOW TO: Save money to live your dreams - Part 3 Promise your future self!" emphasizes the importance of planning and saving for your future goals.
Section 1.3: Overcoming Lethargy
The struggle against lethargy is familiar to many. We all know we should exercise, but finding the time can be a challenge. The key is to start small. If you feel you lack time, begin with minimal exercises—just a few push-ups or a short walk during lunch.
Over time, these small efforts can grow into more significant habits. Find activities that you enjoy, whether it's dancing, swimming, or playing sports. The goal is to integrate exercise into your identity, not as a chore but as a part of who you are.
Section 1.5: The Importance of Knowledge
Lastly, ignorance can lead to unnecessary problems in our tech-driven world. Continuously learning and acquiring new skills is vital for navigating life's complexities. Whether it’s understanding how to negotiate or mastering new technologies, knowledge equips you to handle future challenges with confidence.
Conclusion
Improving all five areas at once can feel overwhelming. Focus on one at a time, breaking down each challenge into manageable routines. Remember, progress takes time, and you don’t have to face these hurdles alone. If you have questions or need support, feel free to reach out.
Best wishes on your journey,
Matthew Normand
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