Mastering the Art of Consulting: Why 'I Don't Know' Works
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Chapter 1: The Power of Honesty in Consulting
Would you rather engage with the truth? What’s the alternative, you might wonder. Excellent question. It's essentially a web of deception, filled with empty talk and showmanship, often sprinkled with a touch of flattery. We project an image of confidence, as if we possess extensive experience and can effortlessly meet expectations. This phenomenon is particularly prevalent in sales, especially within the consulting sector. Clients often struggle to differentiate between those who genuinely know their craft and those who simply have a silver tongue. In this context, it's possible to use deception to secure a deal. No moral dilemmas here. But. Are we prepared to face the consequences months down the line? For me, the answer is a resounding no. I refuse to endure that fallout. It's too painful, and it tarnishes our reputation. Imagine the discomfort of realizing that the Emperor has no clothes on a chilly day. It’s disheartening. What’s worse? Clients may perceive us as inept, believing we know very little about their business, their industry, or their best practices and leading products. When you reach this point, it’s game over. Your consulting contracts will likely not be extended. Clients will not want to hear from you again. May I add, 'ever again'? Why venture down that path? Why not take the unconventional approach? Of course, it’s up to me to clarify what that entails. It’s quite straightforward; I intentionally use these three words in my discussions with clients. I don’t know. Yes, I genuinely don’t. My question is. Why should I?
Section 1.1: Embracing Humility in Problem-Solving
Addressing complex issues and collaborating with agenda-driven individuals requires humility, not arrogance. Every client investing significant resources seeks a swift resolution to their monumental business challenges. No surprises there. Why would they spend substantial amounts otherwise? However, we must grasp a crucial point: every business dilemma is distinct to that specific client. Let’s clarify—I’m referring to the individual client, not just the organization. Let’s take a moment to reflect on our careers. All our roles. Past, present, and future. Yes, it’s easy to conclude that you’re surrounded by incompetence. But did you observe that the incompetents from your previous jobs are different from those beside you now? Why is that? Simple. Diverse environments cultivate varied types of incompetence. The same goes for our consulting clients. There isn’t a singular explanation for why they struggle to perform, increase earnings, or attract more clients to their esteemed logo roster. Multiple factors contribute: bureaucracy, office politics, inefficiencies from layered management, a lack of innovation, and limited foresight. In one firm, the business development director may be the source of frustration. In another high-performing organization, it could be the procurement vice president. They exert their influence in unique ways to achieve their goals.
Section 1.2: Understanding Client Motivations
Now, let’s delve into the darker aspects. Numerous dynamics unfold behind the scenes, which is why office politics can be so toxic. We can strive to maintain transparency and openness. Yet, the most crucial, pivotal decisions are often made behind closed doors—this includes that six-figure deal with you. I could avoid euphemisms, but you grasp my point. This is the first level of dissecting reality, where personal agendas intertwine with organizational objectives. The second level prompts us to ask: what motivates them? The list is extensive. It could include: - Key clients - Year-over-year revenue growth - New market entry - Acquiring new logos for funding purposes - Optimizing production costs per unit - Building their own team - Spin-off from headquarters
Some of these objectives are explicit, while many remain hidden. Remember, human aspirations rarely see the light of day. Thus, your direct sponsor may never reveal their true intentions. If we’re fortunate, they might share some insights, but often we are left to speculate. And trust me, there’s plenty to guess about. In reality, multiple primary concerns often coexist. I understand that sounds grammatically incorrect, but in practice, singular focus rarely applies. Your direct client may secretly be planning a spin-off from headquarters. To accomplish that, they need to achieve 50% more sales revenue from their product line than all other lines combined. To reach this target, they may be willing to undercut colleagues in other offices selling similar products. Let me ask you this: how straightforward is that? It’s anything but simple. If you enter the initial meeting believing that the sole objective is revenue growth... Be prepared for dismissal on Day 1. Alright, let’s say Day 2 instead. For us to effectively sell and provide what’s needed, while also retaining the service... I recommend this: Keep it simple. Embrace ignorance. Say, “I don’t know,” and then ask questions. Uncover insights. Dig deeper. You’ll discover a surprising truth: naïve questions can yield significant rewards. Your client will likely hold you in higher esteem. Why? Because this is their thought process when you admit, “I don’t know.” “Wow, this person is sharp. They ask all the right questions. I want them in my boardroom.”
Chapter 2: The Real Value in Consulting Relationships
Sales transcends mere transactions. This is particularly true for consulting sales. Clients aren’t paying us to purchase a product. They’re not interested in handing over large sums simply because we demand billable hours. No. What they seek is a partner who can: - Address their strategic, tactical, and politically-driven challenges, - Propel them to their desired level of success, - Stand by their side during difficult times.
And this is why we must master the art of saying, “I don’t know.” It’s the key to fostering open dialogue. Once they start sharing, we’ll know how to proceed. That’s how we achieve significant success as consultants. Enjoyed my insights? Consider subscribing here.